Sunday, January 11, 2009

How to Buy Jewelry for Women - A Guide for Men

By Blue Lily

Buying jewelry a woman can be challenging. When it's done right, it's a romantic, meaningful and even magical gesture. It can also be daunting, even intimidating process. But a little knowledge, planning, and preparation can go a long way towards making you hero of the story.

The variety of options will make your head spin. There are earrings, bracelets, necklaces, rings and many different categories of each. As for metals, your choices include silver, platinum, yellow gold, white gold and more. Let's talk gems for a second. Anytime you have a choice, pick a small authentic gem over a large fake one. Have doubts? Ask a woman.

What does she want? If this gift will be a surprise, then you certainly can't ask her. Why not ask her sister or her mother or her friends? Women do talk to each other about jewelry so tap into the network. They may have the information you need or they may know where you can find it. If it's a secret operation, be sure to tell the ladies involved.

The quickest way to determine her sizes is to friends and family. Another option is to measure the pieces in her jewelry box. If none of those options work, consider taking some of her jewelry pieces to the jewelry store so they can size them for you.

To figure out how much to spend, look at the occasion from her point of view. A first anniversary is very important. The 5th, 10th, 25th, 30th, are also important occasions. On these milestones, consider a nice piece of jewelry that conveys the importance of the occasion.

To begin, jump online. Learn the basics of jewelry. Learn about metals and gems. Understand how to determine the quality of jewelry. Be aware of prices. You're out to make an important, thoughtful purchase. Find a number of retailers nearby. Do your homework.

It's important to choose the right gift, but don't mortgage the house to get it. Whether you buy online or from a local store, understand the return/refund policy. It may not be needed after the prep you've done, but it's better to be safe. Finally, buy from an established company. You'll know they'll be there for you later on.

How should you present the gift? Will it be in a romantic setting? How about as an unexpected surprise? You want her to remember it for a long time, so be original. - 15252

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